I wanted to do a special and unique post for my birthday. So since I'm 37, I've decided to make a list of 37 life lessons I've learned so far.
1. Don't dedicate yourself to someone who wouldn't do the same for you in return. If you have to question someone's loyalty, you already know the answer.
2. Stay strong no matter how bad the storm.
3. Remain calm when faced with morons on a daily basis.
4. Never give more than a second chance.
5. Love is not a reason to stay. Love cannot exist in a toxic environment. Sometimes you must leave to save your soul. This goes for friends, family, and lovers.
6. You can't change a person. They are who they are. If you don't like who they are, they aren't worth being apart of your life.
7. Be honest, even if it hurts.
8. You can't plan life. Sometimes things will happen and you will have to adjust.
9. Be comfortable with yourself.
10. No one is perfect.
11. Don't be so quick to judge others and don't let others judge people for you.
12. It's ok to not be ok.
13. Learn everything!
14. Don't look for others to make you happy.
15. Save your money. Things you need are more important than things you want.
16. Discipline yourself (still working on this one, lol).
17. Forgive your kids and their mistakes. You were their age once.
18. Don't seek revenge. Seek justice.
19. Do your job and do it better than anyone else. Life is a competition.
20. Don't change yourself for love and acceptance.
21. Believe actions, not words.
22. Always check your spelling.
23. Never say yes when you really want to say no.
24. Never give up and never stop believing in yourself. Your day will come.
25. Be selfless.
26. You can't please everyone.
27. Someone will always have it worse than you. Be grateful for what little you do have.
28. Let your pain be your wisdom.
29. Nothing last forever so enjoy things while you can.
30. There's ALWAYS a bigger picture and two sides of every story.
31. Cheaters cheat. Liars lie.
32. Have patience.
33. Never take others for granted.
34. Grow a thick skin. People can be mean.
35. Pay attention.
36. Depend on no one.
37. Trust yourself.